5 Pillars of Transformational Love

Master Love & Know Yourself More Deeply

Do You Have Most Everything in Life Except Love?

You've got a great career, things you love to do, family and friends, and just about everything a woman could want. Love comes and goes, yet it's always been the missing part of your life.

You've got your act together and are a good catch. Friends wonder why Mr. Wonderful hasn't shown up and swept you off your feet. While you appear to be fine with things, there's a part of you that worries about never finding the one to share life with.

If that’s been your reality, then as a successful women, you’re smart enough to know continuing down the same path guarantees more guys who leave you feeling unfulfilled, disappointing dates, and relationships that go nowhere.

Without the wisdom to know what to do, love will continue being elusive. It will be harder than it needs to be. You’ll be feeling uncertain, worried, and frustrated about ever finding that special man to share life with. Your heart will be aching, making you question if you’ll ever find true and lasting love.

If you’ve tried to improve your love life and end up feeling discouraged and hopeless, you may be approaching love in one or more of these ways.

  • Doing most of the work and getting very little in return.
  • Showing only the parts of yourself you think appeals to men.
  • Overthinking things and sabotaging a promising connection.
  • Getting caught up in chemistry, making it hard to see things for what they are.
  • Asking friends or family for answers to your love dilemmas, instead of listening to yourself.
  • Not communicating openly or clearly because you're afraid of what might happen if you let him know your true thoughts and feelings.

The reality is approaching love in those ways makes love more complicated, which keeps you from knowing what to do. You'll continue making the same decisions and find yourself with different guys in relationships with the same dynamics.

The Truth is, You Can Gain the Wisdom to Completely Transform Love

The reality is, the love you desire is possible when you simplify your approach. Love is really as hard or easy as you make it to be. Up until now, you've unintentionally been getting in your own way by doing more, overthinking things, giving too much, or trying to control. But when you start doing less, feeling more, giving appropriately, and letting things happen naturally, love becomes easier.

Simplifying love is where you'll gain the wisdom to transform your love life in these ways.

  • You'll receive what you most want, need and desire.
  • You'll feel appreciated, cherished, and respected for who you are.
  • You'll know what to do since you’ll be relaxed and see things for what they are.
  • You'll attract higher-quality men who pursue you and let you know where you stand.
  • You'll feel great about yourself and love, because you’ll be living a life you love.

If you want to stop repeating the cycle of elusive love, continuing down the same path is no longer an option. It’s time to take a more empowering approach: one that lets you master love so you can cultivate the conditions for long-term love to thrive.

Master Love and Know Yourself More Deeply

The 5 Pillars of Transformational Love positions you as the expert in your love life. You'll gain the wisdom to approach high-quality masculine men in genuine ways that keeps them wanting more. You'll have the answers to your own love dilemmas (your friends will be asking you what they should do :)). And you'll finally experience long-term love and have what you've always wanted.

5 Pillars of Transformational Love is an in-depth 8-lesson course where you immerse yourself in all aspects of learning the healthy and sustainable way to love for life. You'll gain the wisdom to know when and how to lean back so the right men pursue you, how to navigate challenging situations by always having your own answers, and how to keep the one pursuing you for life while maintaining your integrity.

Through this empowered approach, you'll grow immensely, your inner beauty will shine, and you’ll captivate and keep the right man’s heart. You'll see things clearly and be comfortable letting things unfold naturally. This course will finally help you simplify love so you can relax and enjoy the love that’s meant for you... all while staying true to yourself.

As you go through the lessons and implement the practices, the weight of not having love will be lifted off of your shoulders and you’ll be breathing and sleeping with much more ease. Instead of feeling stressed about your love life, you’ll feel relaxed and have a knowing that love is coming your way.

It’s time to build a strong foundation for love to thrive, so you can finally experience real and lasting love—once and for all.


These students share their experience from taking my course Goodbye Dating, Hello Courtship. The 5 Pillars of Transformational Love includes foundational aspects from that course, and provides a deeper level of content, materials, and resources.

I have the tools and strategies to keep me grounded.

"Before Goodbye Dating, Hello Courtship, my struggle was in overthinking things and not trusting in love. Having the lessons and practices about taming my monkey mind and trusting in love has been incredibly valuable. It's now easier for me to stay in the present moment. And I have the tools and strategies to keep me grounded as I'm dating. I really appreciated not only the course, but Janet's responsiveness to my individual emails and request for a call when I was facing a moment where I wanted to give up. Having her support in that moment has been critical. I'm so grateful that I had the experience of participating in this course!" - Jennifer S., New York

I'm now able to be true to myself and make good choices.

"Since taking this course, I'm more aware of my feelings and behaviors about love. All of the advice and practices are very relevant to dating, courtship, and even when you're in a relationship. I'm now able to be true to myself and make good choices based on my needs since I have more clarity about the different stages of romantic love. The practical tools and tips are helping me implement positive change in my thinking, awareness, responses, and expectations around love. The community we developed with the other women was great. I loved the program and really like the way Janet coaches. I'm very grateful I took this course." - Wendy W., Massachusetts

This course was much more life changing than I realized. I feel very empowered.

"The most valuable part of Goodbye Dating, Hello Courtship (GDHC) was understanding the new dynamics with men and women, and how to embrace the courtship model. I love Janet’s encouragement and guidance to me personally on how to date chastely in a feminine and inviting way. Learning how to tap into my intuition and the importance of doing so to make decisions about love was also valuable. Since GDHC, I'm much more relaxed and trusting about the process of love. I feel calmer, believe it will really happen, and have a vision of how wonderful it can be. I have a very clear understanding of my strengths and limitations, and specifically what I can do to improve. And hearing the struggles the other ladies experienced put my challenges into perspective. This course was much more life-changing than I realized it would be. I feel very empowered by the materials and guidance Janet shared. I do feel ready to fly, but at the same time will miss the group." - Christina Weber, Christian Entrepreneur Consultant, Kansas

I'm much more hopeful and confident about love.

"I'm much more hopeful and confident about love. The clarity of the teaching, especially the Vision of Love, the feedback, and the calm reassuring manner of Janet was most valuable for me. Thanks for being so responsive and always there for all of us!" - Joanne L., New York

I love this course and am more open.

"The constant reminder of being gentle with myself and always being led back to the fundamental truths of the course was very helpful to me. I am more open to the process of cultivating the appropriate conditions for love and have come to a point of running with it and embracing the process. I love the course and have enjoyed each valuable and in-depth lesson!" - Denise H.


Your Instructor

Janet Ong Zimmerman
Janet Ong Zimmerman

Who am I and why should you listen to me?

By my 38th birthday, I’d been in four significant relationships, 4 insignificant ones, spent time with guys I regret being with, gone on blind dates, went to bars and nightclubs with girlfriends hoping to meet good guys, dated guys from the gym, chased a few guys I was infatuated with, and did online dating.

While I was successful in most areas of life, dating to find love became exhausting, disheartening and disempowering. Then I met Mr. Wonderful and unlike my typical dating experiences, things happened naturally with him. He showed me his true intentions and feelings early on, and I felt relaxed and at ease. The difference this time is I took the path of courtship. Courtship was and continues to be positively love changing.

After experiencing firsthand how hard dating is, transforming my love life through courtship, and supporting hundreds of women experience love at a deeper level through courtship, I know how to help you find positive and lasting results in love.

Course Curriculum

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if 5 Pillars of Transformational Love is right for me?
This course isn't about teaching you tips and tricks where you get short-term results that don't sustain long-term love. You can Google for answers to those things. The lessons and practices in this course, when implemented, are internalized at a deeper level and become your way of being. If you want to be the expert of your love life and know what to do, this course is for you.
Is this course for women who are single, dating, or in a relationship?
It's beneficial for women in different relationship stages - single, dating, or in a relationship. You'll learn the skills and know-how to cultivate and sustain a deep connection with your partner. You'll feel happier and content in your love life. And you'll grow immensely and become your best self. The wisdom and positive transformation from this course will serve you well for the rest of your life.
When does the course start and finish?
The course is a self-paced online course designed to be learned over an 8-week period, while implementing the exercises and practices into your love life. You decide when you start and finish. But it's best to start sooner than later so you can begin feeling empowered to create the love you desire.
What if I have questions during the course or need more support?
You can post your questions in the respective lessons and I'll answer your questions there. Your success is important to me, and I'll make sure to respond to all of your questions.
How long do I have access to this course?
You have lifetime and unlimited access for as long as you like - on any and all devices you own.
Do you offer a guarantee?
5 Pillars of Love comes with a 100% money back guarantee. When you implement the lessons, exercises and practices in the 8 modules, you'll gain the wisdom to be the expert of your love life. You'll have the answers to your own love dilemmas and know how to bring your vision of love to reality. If you decide within the first 30 days after enrolling in this course, that 5 Pillars of Love hasn't helped you feel more empowered and approach love in a healthier way, just email [email protected] for a complete refund. There are no forms to fill out, no strings attached, no questions asked, and no hassles.
Have other questions?
Email Janet at [email protected]

If you've been let down by men, dating and relationships, it’s time to stop being an amateur in your love life! Your mission should you choose to accept it is to become masterful at love in 8 weeks so you can finally experience real and lasting love.

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